the real TRICK is to select the correct item to restore and then get it to "chain" itself back to the original meeting.
When I restore an item deleted by the originator that is still a valid meeting (attendees, room, etc.) back to the originator's calendar, I see the item as TENTATIVE and when opened, you see the "You do not need to accept because you are the originator" message.
Furthermore, when the originator DELETES or CHANGES the message, the deletion/change is not forwarded to the attendee list.
How do I restore the message -- as originator -- and make it look like it is supposed to? (ACCEPTED and modifiable)?